A divorce mom in our life doesn't need close friends. I think the friends we have are from undue influence from the system of alters. It is okay to be relational but knowing we have a busy life it is very tough with a chaotic system it can be really taxing on us. I have had very few if any close friendships. I think the point was made to how would to share to friends their role in the keeper of knowledge in our system was mostly important and also how you can have accountable with them. I would say friends are the need for one could get to our littles and maybe feeling overwhelmed around people. My family dynamics started us dissocating with social trauma via a religious house meeeting the more serious abuse came later with the creation of our first alter at 5 years old. The school interactions could have wanted us and later with friends not people jealous for whatever reason.

I think a friend getting married will bring up lonliness issues what you have to do if get to the root of it talk about it until it doesn't trigger whomever has a dependence to the friend. Does this little have a friend inside to share to? If one day there is no choice the little might start to like married life and say I don't want our friend to break up our marriage in the little way with the adults. Like a daughter that is dating we are all married some day it might get that way. It would be millions revelations before the system gets that type of perspective.

I'm not saying that is recommended because it would cause it not to allow for break up possible or making it really tough. If you can balance all the traits that would be really great