Maybe I used the wrong word? What I mean is, if your own boundaries (read: beliefs or possibly desires) are not what keep you from doing something, but someone else's are, then aren't you allowing yourself to be bound by other's beliefs...rather than your own? Shouldn't we act in accordance with what we ourselves believe....and....uh....this is...mmmm, maybe falling apart in front of me. I mean...as long as those beliefs we act in accordance to are within....hmmm...

I...might have had a manic moment. I'm drowning with uncertainty at how to even explain this and feel like a dummy