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Originally Posted by Patagonia
Yeah I have an issue too with you telling your wife that it's VERY important that she loses weight!
Gee any pressure there? Are you a great catch yourself? Very superficial!
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I'm not overweight and I compromise of course. My wife hated that I used to suck my thumb (at 29yrs old) when in the house. She told me that it was very unattractive for her and it was important that I stopped. I had been sucking my thumb all my life.
But because I knew how serious she was, I quit.
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If this is affecting your ability to go out in public it's pretty serious.
If you would take this a step further & say, have a fling, have you thought about what would happen next? How you'd feel? How the other person would feel & how you'd feel toward your wife?
Having an affair or fling or casual sex usually fails bec most don't think past the actual act.
What r you really looking for? The desire of being wanted? Power? Just sex? Find what you're really looking for & then make some decisions
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All very valid questions. I really don't know how I would feel if I had sex with another woman who I found attractive.