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Originally Posted by Struggler0510
That is simply untrue -- and something out of my control. My chemical makeup isn't attracted to heavy women. This is not a decision I made, it's my internal nature.
Just because I married my wife (when she weighed significantly less) doesn't mean I *should* be attracted to her at *any* weight. This is completely illogical.
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Was she overweight when you too met and during the time you two dated before getting married? Did her weight fluctuations come up at all during this time? If you're not attracted to a larger,more full figured woman, you shouldn't have married one then. Marrying a woman who isn't physically your type is what is illogical here.
I find that the fact that you can't have sex with your wife due to her being full figured a rather shallow and petty one. Sure, we all have preferences and types, I get that, but marrying a woman who doesn't fit your type and expecting her to fit into that type range is rather confusing to me. I agree with Patagonia's remark that it is you who are the illogical one here.