i pretty much focus on my own issues. i'm not being self-centered. it's the "take care of yourself, so you can take care of others" belief that i have and believe in. i'm not bothered by others' progress because we're all human and unique. i'm happy to be able to help whenever i can.

i understand the frustration of dealing with people who may be stuck on an issue over and over. i have that frustration with my own self, too. you might think it's like a tape being played over and over. from my own experience, it's more of a spiral because a lot of times when i had to revisit an issues, i'm dissecting it from a different perspective. typically, my struggle is over when i have dissected it from every different perspective. and it might be what's going on with others. just my own opinion and perspective.

i leave my judgement at the door before coming here because i want to be as welcoming as psych central has been toward me. it's truly a good place. i know it's not perfect, and that's because we're all human. but, as long as do the best of what we can do here, pc will be a great place for support.

another thing to remember, we as human beings all run at different paces.