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Originally Posted by Sassandclass
I'd love to know what makes a woman a target, and why I find myself one so often. My husband says I "stand out", but I don't mean to!
Here's a little bit about me: I'm petite, brunette, extroverted, and kind. I just do my own thing, and I can be independently happy. I'm in a band and I run a business with my husband. I'm not in other people's business. I don't tear others down. I'm the shoulder to cry on when anyone has an issue. I've been there for the women in my life countless times.
Yet, still, if someone is going to be ganged up on - it's me.
Why?!?!?!?
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I can't say for sure (I don't know you) and I think it can be various reasons why some women are targeted - jealousy can certainly be a factor and it sounds like you have a lot of great things in your life maybe others envy?
Overall though I'm not sure it's worth expending too much energy over trying to figure out 'why'. It is very likely more about them than you and we can't change others behaviour.