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Originally Posted by prefabsprout
I can't say for sure (I don't know you) and I think it can be various reasons why some women are targeted - jealousy can certainly be a factor and it sounds like you have a lot of great things in your life maybe others envy?
Overall though I'm not sure it's worth expending too much energy over trying to figure out 'why'. It is very likely more about them than you and we can't change others behaviour.
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Excellent point. Being (healthily) assertive is something I have been working on for the past year and this has helped me to not blame myself for something that's not my fault. Learning assertiveness (rewiring your brain) is a rough road, but one that is well worth traveling!!