First off, people in families or any relationship, for that matter don't get along perfectly and perpetually so. There is always conflict and that is normal.
You mention that he wants to talk to his friend and sort of minimize the fact that his friend wanted to commit suicide as if this is an unimportant fact. You have overlooked the fact that this is something that can be very devastating and jarring to hear from someone you care about. I assume it's one of his good friends and thus, it seems to be very likely a reason he was wanting to give his friend more attention. Try to think from the perspective of how he sees things and/or feels without taking personally his actions and behaviors toward you. Back up a bit and thin try to understand, try to be sympathetic to his situation.
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Anyway today i anyway hes acting all ****** yesterday cause i wanted to show him something. And he couldve looked and paused his stupid game to see instead hes like kinda busy.and im like why dont you want to see it and hes like cause your annoying me.and it just goes on so i started to push the laptop down and he sinks his arm into my flesh were my hand is healing from self harm.
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This part concerns me quite a bit. YOU wanted him to look at something, and he didn't want to. Regardless of his reasoning, your forcefulness was very controlling and you really did cross a boundary by getting physical and pushing his laptop down. Ask people to do what you'd like them to and leave them with the final decision. Whether you like it or not you have NO RIGHT to force them or be aggressive with them if they don't do what you want. Likely he wanted his own personal time and you were intruding.
I'm glad you made up but please do think on the things I've said here.