Wow, that sounds like an unhelpful T response! I know my T isn't keen on labels, but my knowledge of the stuff that's written about CPTSD, emotional abuse can produce symptoms consistent with the diagnosis.

I think if my T and I had a disagreement over issues that were really important to me, I'd seek out another T who I felt "got me" more. The quality of the T relationship is important.

Is it an issue you can agree to differ on? Or is it a deal breaker for you?