Thank you for your comment but I must disagree. I think forums are exactly where this should be discussed. Take this out of darkness and into the light. Why was relational aggression not spoken of in high school? Why was woman bullying never discussed?
In our culture, it's not spoken of. And if you do speak of it, you're "complaining" or "dramatic". That is called victim blaming and victim shaming -- shaming based upon cultural conditioning.

If we talk about it more, and educate ourselves, perhaps less woman will internalize this experience, and more woman will grow from it.
And the highest hope: maybe some woman will stop being the bully themselves.