My family.....children, husband, mom, dad, dogs. My oldest son is not doing well and that is killing me. I feel I will never be happy until he is. I'm trying to find ways to seperate my wellness from his but I don't know if that's possible. I need to be well to help him though so I'm trying. I can't do much in the way of helping him in my current state and living by example is the best strategy so I have lots of changes I need to make ....I'm asking for help because I can't do this alone.