Oh my! You are happy this jerk has a girlfriend. WTF? An honest man would honor his commitments to you and the children and be willing to work though the inevitable dry spots in a relationship.

I wish you the best, but he seems like a real cad. Good riddance! Tomorrow is a new day for you and your children.

As Thoreau said: "Walk confidentally in the direction of your dreams and eandevors to live the life which you have imagined, and you will meet with success unexpected in common hours." I have lived by this and find it true. I "act" confidentally (doesn't mean I truly feel that way) and the world opens.

Best of luck,

Grandessa