I haven't smacked anybody recently...occasionally I do smack my husband across his chops, but I think deep down he finds it arousing because we always have really great sex afterwards....yes we are quite dysfunctional.

I get the feeling to smack people and when I do it's usually important people, like my boss, or my professors. People like that. Occasionally I'll get the feeling to smack the church people who knock on my doors about once a week. I know their intentions are good and wholesome but I can't help but feel anger towards them. Odviously I'm angry someplace else and seem to redirect towards innocent people. Maybe I get frustrated with my toddlers and route the anger towards others instead...this would make sense.