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Old May 04, 2017, 04:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Eleny View Post
I just came out of a long term relationship and have wanted to be alone for a while now. (I've been in relationships since I was a teenager)

But now I'm single I'm struggling to be alone. I keep going on dating apps and getting drawn into talking to boys, but I'd so love to "find myself"

How do I do it though?
You could take an inventory of things that you'd like to do or explore then do them. You could start journaling to find out interesting tidbits about yourself. You could sign up for classes/seminars that interest you. You could start paying attention to what you like/dislike. I guess kind of in a way date yourself for a while. I think it's great that you are looking forward to finding yourself. By "finding yourself" it can only make any future relationships that much stronger or better. Good luck.
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