Good morning everyone
Please give me some feedback on how to handle this. My only child is getting married in october and you think i would be happy. Well i feel bad for saying this but i feel really anxoius about going. For one thing its out of state and i will be the only one attending from this side of the family. She is not involving me in the preperations and is handling everything on her own..stating its super easy. She is also having the wedding at her step grandparents mansion whom i have never met. She had the nerve to say that she dont want any trouble at her wedding. I told hef while she knows i dont care for her dads side this is day is about her. She said she appreciated it but then proceeded to tell me she thinks of her stepmom as a mother too. I think her dads side of the family has brainwashed her by trying to buy her. I see it but she dont.

The thing is while she has hurt me deeply i feel i lneed go to show my love and support even if she hasnt. That and i think her dads side has tried to alienate her againt me...which i want get into. Too long a story i feel i would habe let them won .. What todo