There's nothing wrong with responding to a dream! That's nice that he could hold you and you respond nicely (whether dream induced or not). I'm sure that will get you more love and affection :-) Love and affection are good things, wanting them, natural. I have my husband "pat my bottom" twice like a little kid when I go to bed each night, LOL. Can't get any more cozy/longing for affection than that.