Friendly reminder, you FEEL stuck, you are not in fact physically stuck.

You can make a move if you choose to do so.

Talk to a lawyer about what the implications are about living with your mom, get the facts in order to make informed decisions instead of allowing fear to rule you and make your decisions for you.

You can leave if you want to, you just have to be willing to deal with the repercussions, in your shoes I would have been gone long ago, and that's WITHOUT a new love interest.

Your husband wouldn't have been a husband for long if I was his wife.

Life is so short, I'd hate to think I had condemned myself and my child by staying, knowing it wont get better.

Remember you are not cemented to the floor of that house, you can move, one step at a time.