does hypersexuality just mean you want more sex? or can it also mean you just feel more sexual (more sexually attractive, confident, flirtatious, etc.)? I hardly ever actually want sex more or less than 'usual.' what changes a lot is my desire to be noticed, to go out and get attention, to be seductive, wanted etc. I also feel much less inhibited and more aggressive. i really get off on the excitement of attraction but the thought of following through doesn't interest me at all. would this still be considered hypersexual, despite no increase in actual sexual activity (or desire for it)?