Wow, that is a sick and twisted family. Would you want to raise your children without a caring dad? It sounds like you need to find shelter with your family members so you could figure out how to rebuild your life. That is so sick that he would do that to you, sleeping with his niece and mother? Are you serious that you want to be around this guy? He sounds like a freak. I just don't see a reason why you would want to stay married to this guy? I know you need money but you don't have any family members or friends to stay with for a while?