Niccpa -- I'm a little confused at this point. Your topic is "Help me to understand my fiance." What I've gotten out of reading your posts is that you've got him all figured out pretty well -- and unless someone else's opinion totally agrees with the way you've got things figured out, you are not open to it.

I'm glad that things are running smoothly again for you, and you've made a peace that satisfies you with the way things are.

Peace and blessings to both you and David.