im not sure where youre located but i actually talked to my brother-in-law who is a detective in ohio about pressing charges on my ex boyfriend. he said that now a days you pratically have to be convicted of murder to get put away for any length of time. he was telling me about how this father beat up his 4 year old for waking up his 18 month old. he spent one night in jail. im afraid that if you go to the cops right now theyll just make him go to counseling but never put him in jail. have you been keeping records? if youre going to wait then every time something like this happens make a note of it. write it down. the date, the time, word for word what happened. and when you finally gather up the courage to go to someone you will have documentation of what happened. then maybe he will go to court for it. if anything you get can a restraining order and then if he ever crosses that line he get thrown in jail. its also possible that then he will have to register as a sex offender every year or 90 days or whatever with the courts so they have a constant record of where he is.

please dont give up hope. talk to someone at the police station and spell it out for them. and if you talk to ss make sure to tell them that you want to live somewhere far away from him.