Sorry the relationship didn't work out. and for the job loss too.

ummmmm... dear, I hope I convey this in the way it's in my head(and you don't misunderstand)...... you had a fiance-- someone that you were going to spend the rest of your life with(hopefully), then that broke up...... a month later,you met a guy and it felt good to be around him...... could it be that this guy was mostly filling an urgent void that needed filling?-- the loss of a future marriage/relationship.....

I only say this in kindness and not to offend -- just that-- doesn't it seem rather rapid for you to feel so much as a couple with the new guy, after 4 dates in a months time?

Maybe taking a few months on your own-- alone-- not in a relationship-- and dealing with a loss will help to move forward and give you strength to withstand a possible future set-back. perhaps it's too soon for a relationship?.....

I hope I've not offended, sometimes the thoughts in my head don't make it properly to the screen. My post was solely meant in support.

LuLu-

mandy