I have a question...

Why is it "bad" or "wrong" to be "good" as a child?
Meaning... Opt to do your best to not break rules in school, at home, or in general society, keep things neat n clean (as a kid would define it), and not be hateful/rude?

When I was growing up - other kids would pick on kids that did this (like myself) but what struck me - was my stepmom actually called me abnormal because i didnt wanna go party n drink n do drugs w her daughter...

I still cant grasp it and i am 42...i still hear ppl do that and it still bothers me.

Why??