Everytime I see or hear someone picking on a child for being good and giving the excuse "well she/he makes it so much harder on me bc she/he is always good - therefore i am always bad" it really makes me mad, because i was actually made to go places i did not want to be just bc my stepmom said i wasnt normal...that i was supposed to do those things as a kid, thats just what kids do .. etc

See, I put a ton of pressure on myself trying to be good to get attention from my dad (since mom died), still never got that unless he decided to yell at me bc he didn't like my boyfriend (the one person who gave me love) and then on top of that -i got scolded for being good...called abnormal, a frwak, all sorts of things... So seeing or hearing someone say mean things about "the good child" simply because that child is good ... makes my blood boil and confuses me