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Originally Posted by winter4me
Maybe there is something about the phrase "Calm down"---I know I might hear it as a criticism in some situations, especially if said abruptly as it can feel like a judgement. You say you "hate" the pharmacist and that person may well feel that & be reacting. In one of the places I work, someone posted a note beside the desk saying "Be kinder than necessary. Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.".
Wise words if difficult to adhere to.
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It's complicated. When I first saw him I had some sort of attraction to him. He'd do his job and giving me instructions, and at times ask me how I'm doing and even express concern. But there was something suspicious and scary about him. He can shift from warm to cold hot-headed, may I boldly say "crazy". That's why I feared and suspected him.
He'd go disordered at times. He can seem nice, but one day just radically go angry at something which seems a bit out of place.
I sealed my attraction and acted with my suspecting feelings to protect myself and not let him control me, as I have my jobs to do.
While I despise him, I do try to care for him as best as I can, for instance when customers call, I try my best to help them on my own and there was even a time where I wanted to give him the phone, he got irritated as usual, but managed to handle this on my own and told him how I dealt with the customer on my own, nodded to him and he nodded back, to show he need not worry.