He definitely was for a few days (perhaps longer?). It was during a week where it seemed like he was about to kick my son out of the house

(a few weeks later, my son left voluntary--I have the tendency at times to want to be the intermediary between my son and H, his teacher's, etc.--my T has recommended that I stay out of it and I am mostly trying to do that)

and it stressed me out so much that I started looking into divorce in order for my son to have a place to go. Given what I was planning--it was very stressful for both of us. My H does not take things lying down and of course, if he thought reading my postings would help him tactically--he would all day long.

That being said. I don't think he is now (we are happy and getting along) but of course it is possible (but only likely if I start acting uncharacteristically again). Rather than changing my USERNAME again, I have just decided that the fact that he might be reading my stuff might help me watch what I say. I am way to open about my stuff as it is.......