Hi TaintedLove

Why do you feel weird about what she said???
Well she's basically just either implied that part of "you" scares her when hopefully she'd been helping you understand that she accepted and valued you for you and wanted to support you with/through.........or that part of what your experience/your life right now scares her when she's the one you hopefully have trust in to have the strength to add to yours or to bring out your strength more to help you find your way through the tough times you're facing......not that inspiring............
And she's pretty much labelled you there as part of a "group".........bad in itself.......because someone who cuts is still an individual, not "a label".........but also a "group" that are too difficult for her to completely help herself........maybe making you feel alienated......etc.....??
BUT for you to have been rating her highly as you had/have.............I'm thinking that there has to be much more to her than that so maybe a very poor expression of what she actually meant.......she's actually really wanting to get/give you the best possible help as she sees it, and expressing it wrongly........or she's under-rating herself???!!!
And, from what you've said about her I don't think she should take offence at all if you told her that you felt uncomfortable about what she said..........so yes, I'd say it is important to let her know how what she said made you feel

Alison