Well, I would not count in the 9 months you were away. However, I think the fact that you can be called away for so long like that where she is left alone is part of what she doesn't like about the relationship.

Honestly, I don't know if I would want that kind of relationship. That's very hard on a relationship. And you can, at any time get deployed for a lengthy time correct? Didn't I see you say somewhere in this thread that you are getting deployed again soon? How long are you signed up for?