She married into the military lifestyle. She knew I was Military before we started dating. It wasn't a secret and I deployed before while married to her. It's was different this time cause she was a stay at home mom last time and this time she had "Friends" who brought out negative influences. I'm not about to deploy again and I retire in 2 years. When you get married, you are together for better or for worse. Me being in the military doesn't excuse this type of behavior. If she dont want to be married just say "I don't want to be married anymore, let's divorce" instead of playing games with my emotions