no because then hell complain about how much the cable costs. i told him i was going to donate to the humane society of the united states cause its been a while and he said "i dont think we have the money to donate to anything". like come on.... its a charity thats working towards harsher punishments on factory farms that abuse their animals. but we dont have a spare 10 dollars?

i used to donate to the aspca every month (18 bucks which isnt much but its all i could afford every month) and he would get mad. just amazes me how selfish he can be. and he somehow turns that selfishness around in his brain to not being selfish. he turns into me being selfish because i want pets. and turns his selfishness into "sorry i want to spend time with my girlfriend" (you know how they say it). and he makes it sound like hes working a lot to be able to spend money on us but i hate spending money on us. and he blames the pets while im sitting here on my laptop, with his computer in the other room, a huge apartment, 3 t.v.s, direct tv (with nfl sunday ticket) in every room, land line and dsl internet. and those are apparently all necessities to him. but pets arent even though its been proven that having a pet can lower blood pressure and help you live longer.