Ok, thanks. So, you were married when she was only 24. She was an at home mom, played house and now has a big desire to change her life and be more independent. She is still trying to finish Nursing school and if she's going to be an RN that's a lot of studying and takes a lot of focus.

If I remember she talked about how she would prefer to begin dating you before making her mind up. So, have you ever asked her out for a date? Maybe you need to romance her again. She clearly doesn't want her old life, she wants something different and she doesn't want the old you that was part of her old life, so maybe you need to change things up and romance her.

Sometimes a woman really wants to feel romanced and wanted, especially at her age where she is getting older and may want more than just being a mom and wife. Probably a part of her does love you, but is waiting to see if you will show growth and be creative and romance her. What were you looking for when you were flirting with that woman online until you got caught? When someone starts doing that stuff, something is missing in the relationship, maybe you were bored too and needed someone to tell you you are hot or sexy or whatever it was that drew you to doing what you did. When a husband's eye wanders and he flirts, that is a real hit to a woman's ego and can set in a concern that changes a woman's sense of safety and become aware of their age and worry about being stuck or left past one's prime.