Ahh don't be so sure. When my mom and dad died I was really shocked and surprised at the people that did show up - who didn't even know them well. People who went to grammar school with them; neighbors (that we never talked to), nurses or people in health care that took care of them, people that knew me or my brother. It was really inspiring.
You just don't notice who is taking notice of you or who does quietly appreciate you.
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