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bebop said:
I am very sorry hon that you felt that way in the relationship thread. I don't think any of us knew Carol was the one that hated men.

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Thank you Bebop....... ((( hugs )))

Now can I ask?

Why should it matter if it was Carolyn or Carol that was needing to VENT about these negative feelings toward men, for don't they both deserve to be validated for the feelings that came about from what happened to them?

For remember while I (Carol) may hold the feelings for these painful and destructive wounds - it was still she (Carolyn) that had to live through them and she remembers a lot.