Dear Mona,
I can feel you distancing yourself. I am not sure what is going on between us but something has changed.
I feel it's a real relationship, I know you have said it's not because you are paying me. I have been thinking a lot about this and even if you weren't paying me, I would still like to spend time with you. Maybe I shouldn't have told you this because you have pulled away. I don't understand you sometimes, you want to be close and when I offer you any closeness, you pull away. Please tell me what's going on so we can look at this together