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Originally Posted by Depressed-Fiance
1. She has also said that I will never be able to have/hold down a relationship if we split up.
2. She's been rude and insulting to my family (calling my family thieves and liars) even when there is no basis for this.
3. She has drained me of all my life savings to hep her pay her bills etc.
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These are reasons to believe it is abuse. The statements you gave that she was making (on their own - without us knowing this information) may or may not have indicated abuse. Now that you have said this, yes, I definitely believe it is emotionally abusive.
The question is: Have you reached the point you are ready and willing to leave?
You definitely should leave, but I know from personal experience - it will only happen when you are ready for it to. We can tell you as emphatically and as long as we want to "leave now", but it will do no good unless you came to us thinking "if this is abuse, i am leaving". So - are you ready?