It's good that you realize the signs of "being ready" and you recognize that you aren't. Just keep trusting that.

However, I am a bit concerned when you write "every guy I've told...." You'd probably save yourself a lot of trouble from annoying guys if you didn't tell them. Not being rude, just my opinion. It's one thing to get mad if a guy asks you about your sexual history. It's a whole other thing to get mad at his reaction if you actually went ahead and told him. Just be careful what you tell people. It's really none of their business.