I have written her a card the month I came home to apologize for the wrongdoings on my part of the marriage. I had mentioned it before about this guy who cheats on his wife but she simply says "That's none of my business what he does" so she clearly doesn't care. I understand that it's healthy to get out every now and then to get away and have fun with your friends but One on One with a person of the opposite sex is always a recipe for diseaster unless that person is homosexual. Now if it where a big group it would be acceptable.