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Originally Posted by Bill3
She could benefit from individual counseling, not couples counseling. But I expect that she would never consider individual counseling.
Do not expect her to change in any way. If you marry her, life will be no better and in fact can be expected to get considerably worse.
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She is far too 'perfect' (in her eyes) to benefit or even consider going for some counselling never mind
individual counselling.
According to her - I'm the one who is difficult to live with, I'm the one who is 'problemed', I'm the one who 'won't change' and so on...............
You are all helping to convince me that marriage and her for that matter are just not for me. She is abusive and I can't allow myself to feel any more manipulated and unloved as I already do.