My goal would be to rest from the good and bad therapy has done a toll on us. Doing enough to get by is what I would require as a goal because for obvious reason there is will always be alters on teetering on either side waiting for more waiting for the demise. I remember them often enough age is a factor time doesn't wait on anyone so anything better will always be something new in life. I'll take my social security help for the right now and be okay with occasional part time work. I think I will always have this for a hobby keeping us open. I'm struggling the right now is what I will speak to in this thread.

How are you at not allow alters to dissociate as much, say at the grocery store without it seeming like a flooding of preferences for those that switch often...Also without it being, I just want to again show a difference without it frustrating those whom already know. Keeping in account the budget what has to be gotten out the list if kids are alone for shopping without having to say shut up! lol. Sorry kinda of a loaded question