I had to check to make sure I wasn't the one who had posted this! Ha.
I have a HUGE problem with people going through my stuff.
Personally, I think this stems from when my apartment was burglarized and everything was stolen; I had to start over, and it was exhausting (mentally and physically).
Also, I tend to let people into my life too easily and trust too quickly, which had led to "friends" saying they want to "help me clean the apartment," and they end up going shopping in my stuff! I don't have many nice things, but I do splurge occasionally on beauty products, and there's nothing I hate more than someone going into my bathroom and squealing "Oooh! I want to try this!" I have such a co-dependency problem that I have a tough time saying no, and so I let them, and then I end up resenting them.
I would never dream of going into anyone's home and going through their stuff. I think it is incredibly rude for someone else to assume that the way they live is better than the way I live. If I didn't ask for help, don't offer it. I will get a maid if I want help.