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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
I am so very, very sorry that you are going through this. Physical illness on top of mental illness and this kind of stress is a triple whammy. Was it ever a possibility of living with your father? I like your father's advice to avoid her when possible and your thoughts of moving out and away. Would it be possible to have a sit down conversation with you mom or is she too far gone? How about your brother? Would a sit down help? Finally, do you have a therapist to help you process these feelings so you don't self harm and see that this says something about them, not about you? Again, I am so very sorry you're going through this. It must be very confusing and painful. I wish I could just wrap you up in a big hug right now. You are not alone. You have a lot of support on this board. Thinking of you...
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Thank you very much for your suggestions and words of encouragement. Unfortunately my Dad lives in a different part of the country, so living with him is not an option. I think we get along better when we don't live together anyways. I think it would be impossible to talk to my mom about what is going on. She isn't really willing to listen, nor is my brother. I think it's best to move on and focus on making an effort to have more positive people in my life.