yeah i do basically a little bit of everything. i was in a band when i was between 13-15. not just a little crappy band, like we got paid to play shows so technically i was a professional musician lol. music was always a huge part of my dads life. he taught my brother to play guitar and we were surrounded by music growing up. him, not so much.

he tries to get me to sing all the time for him but im too embarassed. in front of a huge crowd you cant make out faces so who cares if they dont like me. but if he doesnt like it?! i would flip. he has heard me play guitar and piano though. i dont have my bass or trumpet anymore though.

a big problem of his has been that he doesnt speak his mind when it comes to money issues. so when i wanted to adopt a dog, he didnt want to but didnt say a word about it. same thing with the cats. so now we have 4 pets and he didnt want them but its just now coming out. and if he would have brought it up we would have compromised. he is getting much better about talking though. i told him that im crazy so if sometimes i just start yelling and wont let him talk that he has to tell me to shut up. i think hes only done that twice lol

he has a lot of confidence issues that bring out a lot of other problems. but he says ive made him be much more confident. and as he is gaining confidence our problems get smaller and less frequent. we have already talked about major issues like a house and kids or a car etc... and the big things we agree on.