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Originally Posted by Depressed-Fiance
Again, thank you to all who have taken the time to offer some great advice here regarding my toxic relationship with my fiancé.
Not that it would male much difference anymore, but a few other parts of her controlling ways:
- If I don't fold my clothes up neatly every night then she will say in a negative tone "Why aren't your clothes tidy? You are so messy".
- If I miss a bit when washing the dishes, she will say that the whole dish needs rewashing.
- She will comment on my clothing and if it doesn't look 'trendy enough' for her then she'll say I am dressed like a little boy and know nothing about fashion.
- She will brainwash me into not using chemicals to wash my car just because she is 'environmentally friendly'.
- If I do housework then it is never good enough for her because in her mind I 'miss bits'.
- If I am on a day off from work and she is working that day, she will phone me from her work and in a disapproving tone she'll ask why I'm still in bed and not up!
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I wouldn't be able to handle such nit picking. Would you want her doing that to your children?
My husband likes everything folded just so. He even has a shirt folding rack. I take his stuff and fold it as carelessly as I like, and tell him he should just be thankful I am washing, folding, and putting his laundry for him.