No Trace my dad died of Cancer. Yet another tramatic experience. I saw him just before he died, god that was hard. Neither of them (Dad or Mom) can or will talk about serious emotional issues. Emotional deserts. There is so much my oldest brother never knew. Huge amounts. Years and years. But he does know that my parents don't talk about things that really matter. Always at the surface. A lot of things don't register with my brother or he doesn't believe or care. He probably gets 30% to 50%. Mom is still alive, barely, but no chance of communication. My other brother died, drank and drugged himself to death. I miss Mike, he was smarter and saw more, but still not as much as I did. Shalom.