Hi Leomama, compassion for a person with ASPD is pointless, they have no empathy so he will not care what you think. My advice is try to educate your daughter in what to expect from her father. I have APSD and a son, but I have no feelings regarding him at all, he's just another human and generally I have nothing but contempt for them all. Your ex partner will not change, treat him as a dangerous animal i.e. with extreme care, or he will continue to run rings around you. Do not let him manipulate you or your daughter, don't trust his motivations because he does not think like you. Question everything he tells you. If he starts acting normal run like hell, there will be an ulterior motive.