If I were in CA and came across that profile, provided we were a good match, I'd probably sent you a message, and you'd probably not respond. Don't know if that answers your question. What I look for on OKC is a high "match" rating (85+) and a low enemies rating (10-). Then I compare answers on the questions. I should probably point out that I have never so much as had a conversation with someone on an internet dating site, though.