Open Eyes, thank you very much. I really appreciate it. I am working on all my flaws and failures I had as a husband. I know it's not going to happen overnight and it's going to take a long time for her to trust me again. Your right about being patient, that's what I need to work on definitely. I'm not saying this separation was a bad thing. It opened my eyes to how much of a controlling A-hole I was...I can't take it back and all I can do is show her improvements and it's up to her if she wants to take me back. Thanks for being there for me Open, your insight has been very helpful to me