It is funny you mentioned being lynched, because I felt the same when I made my 1st reply. Thanks for the clarification. Two working parents makes life very stressful, It is a sad state of our society when both parents must work to survive.

I do not see you as a villian. I agree you do your share , maybe more of the realtionship. I know some women out there will hate me for saying this, but hormones can play a role in mood too. When I was younger, I really didn't have mood swings but the older I get the more I notice they creep in.

thanks Cyran0 for really hearing what I said ,and not reading more into. That is part of what makes you a great guy

Linda