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Originally Posted by SaharaSon
Trace, life is complicated, very complicated, and I think the best we can do is to keep it as simple as possible and pray for the best. There are just too many moving parts for us to keep track of, let alone control. The older I get the less judgemental I am of people, I don't know their history, or circumstances. Don't get me wrong, when someone comes aggressively at me or the helpness, I will do what ever necessary to defend. Survival instinct. As you may expect I am very protective of children. Those who hurt children bring out the darkest side in me. I have no mercy for them. None. Shalom.
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I think most people and animals feel the same way that they would fight to the death for their offspring. But I think from some of our own histories we may be more so. Raising a child would be complicated as well. You see so many people saying I want my kids to have what I didn't have, but in the meantime they miss teaching the children that not everything so their way, or not everything you want can be attained with out some work. That's why we live in a society of people who feel they are entitled. But you can really blame them that;s the world they were brought up in. Children mimic their environment as they get older. Children brought up in abusive home often become abusive spouses themselves. Children that are brought up feeling that they don't have to work for the material things in life have a really hard time in life. Not saying all children grow up that way but if they don't know any other way they will resort to what they know as an adult. I'm glad you are a loving father, you seem very balanced in the way you perceive things in life. Pretty remarkable considering what you went through, you should be very proud of yourself. I don't really know you and I'm proud of you
