Rose76, I really must ask you again if you have ever been in or been educated about controlling or abusive relationships?

Just bc she doesn't give "good examples" in YOUR opinion, does not mean they are the only examples. She was the one who said she felt he was being controlling n manipulative. Yes, he has the right to not let her touch his guitar or in his apartment - but how big of a change was this and why? Those are questions that would be indicative of control or not. She originally said she thought perhaps he was having an affair possibly - which I said was a possibility, but when she thought it over she thought it was more on the control n manipulation side. Why are you attempting to devalue her opinion on her situation?